[M4F] 41/M/MI - This one's for the lurkers like myself

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Since I've sent nearly every F4M on here who's posted in the last month a message (with little to no success), I guess its time I make a post of my own for the lurkers like myself.

I haven't been here long but I've seen quite a bit in a short amount of time. I'm not really new to affairs, I just don't have a lot of experience with this sub.

Now for the obligatory introduction -

I'm not married, but in an LTR where the spark died long ago. Like everyone else here, I'm not really looking to change anyone's situation. I'm definitely not your typical Reddit gooner just looking for sexts/nudes. I want more than that. I'm looking for someone who I can chat with about anything and everything. Obviously, getting spicy is something I would like to get to, but not until a certain level of trust has been obtained. I'm an early riser and would love to have someone to send a daily "Good morning, Beautiful."

A little about me - I grew up as an outcast. I won the high school senior award for "Biggest Culture Shock." Some called me "goth" but I just considered myself a "freak." These days I dress a lot more normal but my mind is anything but. I have a dark, but great, sense of humor. My biggest passions are music and sports. I love to cook and practice a healthy lifestyle. Physically, I'm 6'2" and around 185lbs. Dark hair (I keep a super short buzz-cut,) blue eyes, short trimmed beard, some tattoos. Attraction is important to me. I try to take good care of myself and I hope you do too. I'm happy to share pics early on and hopefully you will be too. I'm not looking anything in particular physically, you don't have to be a supermodel to put something in my DMs. All I ask is you take care of yourself and try to look sexy from time to time.

If you're still here and think we might be a fit, feel free to drop something in my inbox. Hope to hear from you soon :)

Posted Jul 11, 2026, 1:42 PM UTC

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