I am done with finding friends

Every time it seems to end up in so much drama and disappointment. Maybe it's me and I am expecting too much but it seems like anybody I meet is just for drinking coffee or going for a walk and nothing else. I want to travel with people but nobody seems interested. Or go away for a day to a new city or the beach.

I do anything for them if they need help and actively offer it. Now I needed help with a small errand because I am going through a breakup and after asking nobody is willing to help me. I lost so many people the last years and I am seriously thinking about not even trying to broaden my social circle anymore because what's the point? I feel lonely either way.

I am from West Europe and the culture here is also so cold and individualistic that it makes me depressed. Zero community feeling. I live alone and get so lonely. What to do?