Harshwardhan Patil in Kharghar
I want to share my personal experience in the hope that it helps someone else.
I was in a relationship with a guy named Harshwardhan Patil from Kharghar who have i20 car and Triumph bike.In the beginning, he made promises about our future and gave me the impression that he was serious about the relationship. We became emotionally and physically close because I trusted him.
After some time, his behavior completely changed. Instead of communicating he ghost me for 2 months honestly, I felt ignored and eventually got blocked on every platform when I tried to understand what had happened. During our conversations before that, I was told things like we had "different upbringings," "Your salary is too low, intellectual difference and you are not match for me that he wasn't ready to share his life with anyone. Those words affected me deeply, and the experience had a serious impact on my mental health and self-esteem.
And today I saw him in Pandavkada with another girl, which brought back a lot of painful memories.
I'm not posting this to spread hate or ask anyone to attack him. I'm simply sharing my experience so that others can be cautious and make informed decisions. If you're dating someone, please pay attention to whether their actions match their words.
And to everyone: if you know you don't want a serious relationship, please be honest from the beginning. Don't make promises you don't intend to keep, and don't leave someone by ghosting them. Honest communication may hurt.
Posted Jul 11, 2026, 1:44 PM UTC