This is not a lesbianfashionadvice space it is transfashionadvice. Even your rules put transphobia before lesbiphobia despite being a LESBIAN subreddit

Every second poster I see here is trans looking for validation and hugboxxing, and the rest are bisexuals. This is ridiculous. Bisexuals aren't lesbians, nor are they biological men. Lesbians are homosexual females. Thanks for coming to my TED Talk