in laws are being ridiculous with day after expectations.

so my wedding is in a few days and my wife's parents are being ridiculous about day after activities they have planned.

it's a big all day 300+ person wedding, we know we are going to be exhausted, we know it's going to be huge, we can't wait to sleep and do nothing the following day in our hotel and enjoy the start of our new life.

except her parents have this idea of a family lunch at a relatives house which is a 3 hour drive from our hotel, obviously we have told them directly but then at a dinner last night both her mother and father wouldnt shut up about it and how it would be great.

almost all of these people are going to be at our wedding anyway and we will be going to this location 2 days after our wedding to her family's holiday house anyway but they can't seem to get in through their skills that we don't want to talk to anyone the day after our wedding.

frustrating etc but we will likely just ignore them if they press the issue on the day.