23 [M4F] #Hertfordshire/UK - Nerdy childfree and petfree guy looking for my kinky forever person (18-23) (Open to relocating)

Hey there, This is probably going to be quite a long post so please bear with me on that! Please make sure that you read it all before you reach out, if you decide to. If you think we’re a good match then please send me a message and tell me about yourself and who you are, just like I’ve done here, I do ask you to please only message me if you’re serious about wanting a relationship and match what I’m looking for and please tell me explicitly in your first message that you match what I’m looking for because while I’ve spoken to many great people on here I also get a lot of very low effort messages where it’s clear they haven’t read the post at all.

About me:

- I’m 23 and live in the UK not far from London.

- I’m childfree by choice, have known for the majority of my life that I don’t want to have kids. I am planning to get a vasectomy in the future, I don’t have an exact timeline on when I’ll get it yet but I WILL be getting one. I also don’t want to have pets in the future, I do like animals but I don’t want to own any.

- I’m 5’10 or 178cm, I’m not particularly athletic or sporty, I do enjoy long walks and swimming a lot.

- I currently work in a pub, I enjoy it but long term my goal is to be a software engineer, I have a computer science degree and am currently just getting my CV ready to start job hunting, just getting my programming skills back up to scratch, building projects and all that good stuff. Job market right now isn’t great so I don’t expect to find a job quickly but it is what it is.

- I’m not a very family orientated person, I do have a good relationship with my parents but I’m not close to most of my family, my life in general isn’t heavily based around family and I would like a partner who has the same mindset.

- I’m neurodivergent and an introvert, I’m definitely someone who values their quiet time and likes to spend a lot of time just chilling, gaming, watching my favourite shows and all that good stuff. Relationship wise I have very little tolerance for yelling (at each other, I can sometimes get quite excitable) i want the kind of relationship where we can both feel safe around each other and discuss things calmly if ever we need to resolve an issue.

- I’m a big gamer, I mostly like playing story games and FPS games, I’m planning on getting a PS5 soon (I did have one a while ago) and I’m going to get the Assassin’s Creed black flag remake and also the Halo remake, I have been playing Black Ops 2 since they ported it to PS4 and PS5 but my internet is a bit shit atm so it’s kinda unbearable haha.

- I’m very affectionate both physically and verbally, I love cuddling and I’ll probably tell you I love you 300 times a day (maybe a slight exaggeration there but not too far off haha)

- I like travelling, I’ve been to 7 countries so far in my life, been to Spain a lot when I was a kid, been to Germany quite a bit on solo trips, same with Poland. I’ve also been to the US and would like to go again at some point. I enjoy both sightseeing and relaxing resort type holidays and definitely want a good mix of both in the future.

- I do drink alcohol from time to time but I don’t smoke or take drugs.

- I’m financially literate and responsible, I would like to retire early in the future if possible.

- I’m not religious at all.

- I would like to live in a big city in the future (would have to live near to one at the very least since there isn’t much of a job market for tech in small towns).

- In terms of sexual stuff, a good sex life is very important to me in a relationship. I have a very high sex drive and am dominant in the bedroom. Admittedly I’m not very experienced like I am a virgin for example, have done plenty of other things in previous relationships but the relationships through no fault of anyone just didn’t work out before we went all the way. I am kinky and have a good amount of kinks that I’m into, some that I’m experienced with, others that I want to explore. Kinks that I’m into and have experience with are facefucking, throatpies, facials and rimming (giving and receiving). Kinks I want to try are anal, cockwarming etc. I’m very open minded about kinks and stuff my main limit would just be things involving other people as I want a monogamous relationship.

- I would like to get married in the future however I do NOT want to have a “normal” wedding, I absolutely want to elope just the two of us. I know that’s very forward to say right away but I don’t want to waste anyone’s time if that’s something that’s important to them.

What I'm Looking For:

- You’re 18-23 years old and live in the UK, it doesn’t matter where in the UK you currently live as long as you’re happy to move to a bigger city in the future (London, Manchester, Edinburgh etc.) in the meantime we can visit each other as much as we can

- You’re firmly childfree (you do not have or ever want to have children). If you want to get sterilised in the future that’s a plus although it’s not a hard requirement. You are also petfree.

- You want to travel with me in the future and visit lots of different countries.

- You are not very family orientated.

- You are not religious.

- You don't smoke or take drugs

- You have a very high sex drive and heavily value a good sex life in a relationship. You are kinky and submissive when it comes to your sexuality and are into the kind of kinks i mentioned earlier. It doesn’t matter if you have any experience or not just that you’re open minded and want to explore and have a good time together.

- You consider yourself to be more of an introvert and have nerdy interests or are curious about them.

- You’re an affectionate person.

- You want to get married in the future but also don’t want a “normal” wedding/don’t care about having one.

- You're financially literate or are open to learning so that we can work on retiring early together.