Do other INFJs find situationships unsatisfying?

I recently experienced my first situationship with someone I knew from school, and it made me question whether that kind of relationship dynamic is for me.

What I found most difficult wasn't the lack of labels itself, but the uncertainty. When communication became inconsistent, I realized I didn't feel comfortable expressing my expectations because we hadn't defined what we were. It felt like I had no place to ask for more consistency or clarity.

The experience also made me notice a pattern in myself: I tend to invest deeply in people and often focus on what a connection could become rather than what it currently is. That doesn't seem to work very well in situationships, where ambiguity is often part of the arrangement.

I'm curious whether other INFJs relate to this. Do you find that casual relationships or situationships don't align with how you naturally connect with people? Or do you think this has less to do with personality type and more to do with individual attachment styles and communication preferences?

I'd love to hear your experiences.