Many of us grow up believing that the way our parents raised us is normal because it is all we have ever known but as we grow older we begin to question many of those beliefs

if you become a parent one day what are the things you would never repeat with your own children

if you experienced patriarchy gender discrimination emotional pressure or different rules for sons and daughters would you raise your children differently

would you let your children choose between a love marriage and an arranged marriage without forcing your own expectations on them

would you support your daughter if she wanted to live alone build a career first or decide not to marry at all

would you raise your son to share household responsibilities respect womens choices express his emotions and see women as equals instead of expecting women to sacrifice more

do you think many parents unknowingly pass on the same beliefs they were raised with or do you think every generation has the chance to break that cycle

what values would matter more to you traditions or your childs happiness freedom and ability to make their own choices

im asking because i believe real change does not begin with laws alone it begins at home with the way we raise the next generation im curious to know how your experiences have shaped the kind of parent you hope to become

please share your thoughts respectfully there are no right or wrong answers only different experiences and perspectives.

If you become a parent one day what will you choose to change