70s ish maybe Carole king or Bonnie raitt? About men unintentionally misleading women

Omg this killing me. There’s a song I heard last fall that i loved but I cannot remember for the life of me.

I thought it was by Carole King or Bonnie Raitt but I’m coming up short. It’s a song sung by a woman with that sound at the very least, and the thesis of the song is about the differences between a man loving a woman and a woman loving a man. It talks about men unintentionally leading women on.

Please help! I’ve been searching for weeks.