25 [M4F] married but looking for an older woman to get to know and build a connection with

Sometimes I wish I was more patient so that I could have experienced everything I’ve always wanted to? I never had the opportunity to live on my own, go out to bars (although I’m a huge introvert so this one would’ve been unlikely), and make memories with different women. I’m not sure if the yearning I have is something that I will eventually grow out of, but after two years of being married, it’s still something I think of often.

I think I’ve always been attracted to older women because they can give guidance and put to use their experience that I don’t yet have. The unfortunate part for me is that I never pursued them when I had the chance. I feel like my interests are a bit more nerdy and wouldn’t necessarily line up with an older woman. And before I was in a relationship, I had no confidence due to being out of shape and health problems. Since then, I’ve lost over 50 pounds and I think I’m a lot more attractive and confident compared to that rough patch I had, which just leads to more curiosity on pursuing the type of woman I’ve always wanted.

I’m looking for someone to get to know and explore myself with. Of course I have hopes for what I’d like to get out of this, but no expectations. Physically I’m mixed race (black and white), 6’3 and 210 pounds (chubby/muscular build). I’m into all body types and races, and my age preference is really wide, about 30-55. I’m in a professional career and have a very stable job, I don’t think there’s anything outstanding about myself or what I do, but I’m happy with where I’m at. Some of my interests are reading, fitness, watching shows, gaming, and learning new hobbies. If you think we might click, message me and let’s see where it goes.