43 [M4F] #NYC/NJ looking for my happy mistake

Jersey city located, I’m 43, married, overeducated, good looking and taking care of myself. I’m a dad. I’m not looking to be rescued, and I’m not trying to blow up anyone’s life. But if you can make me catch myself daydreaming about what might be possible, you’re probably doing something right.

Things have felt a bit off in my relationship for a while. I’m not sure exactly when it started, but I do miss having that easy connection, good conversation, and a bit of chemistry with someone who’s genuinely interested in getting to know me.

I’m drawn to women who are interesting, sharp, playful, and a little difficult to stop thinking about.

I take care of myself, stay active, and appreciate someone who does the same. Putting effort into yourself says a lot.

Also, I’m on the taller side, so height is not an issue. Confidence and chemistry matter more.