26 [M4F] #Online - Honestly life is great, but I want more. I want someone that'll yap with me
Happy Saturday Reddit! As the title states, my home life is pretty great, I can’t complain about the SO by any means, but I still want more. I want an OA that’ll find the time to tell me about their day, rant about whatever is on their mind, keep me updated with their work, and basically give me the pocket bf experience. I want to flirt, I want to get to know everything about you, and I wanna do it while we keep it hidden from the rest of the world. Additionally, I want you to reciprocate that energy. If it’s a matter of me asking you questions and never becoming invested in me, then yeah I’m losing interest real fast.
Notables:
- I enjoy talking a lot! I’ll have some opinion/question/thought on almost anything, and I love to learn when it’s something I’m clueless on. With that said, I’m really looking for someone that’ll talk a fair bit too. The three word responses are tiring and I’m not putting effort into that
- Obviously this isn’t going to be 24/7. We both have lives we need to handle, this comes after all of that. Just communicate what’s going on please
- Yes I’m engaged and have been for about 7 months. No kids. No I don’t actively live with my SO at this time. FWIW, my fiancé is Asian
- Age wise I don’t care if you’re older or younger
- Attraction does matter to me so I expect you’re open to testing those waters if you reach out.
About me:
6’1, 190lbs~, half Mexican / half Italian, brown hair brown eyes, and EVERYONE says I’m handsome/cute. I’m very energetic, thoughtful, caring, funny, nerdy, and I’m a huge lover boy hence why I want someone that’s open to building a connection. My interests include drawing, working out (I’m not jacked don’t expect it), sports, K-pop, learning/studying whatever piques my interest and many more.
My biggest personal red flags: I’m a very picky eater.
Additionally, I work full time and do grad school full time but I’ll always be able to reply / send texts/voice memos/call if those are things that you're into.
Posted Jul 11, 2026, 9:01 PM UTC