First time alone in years
Hey everybody
Must excuse me, English isn't my native language.
Me m32 and my wife f40 been together for 11 years. When we got married, she got pregnant after a month. So with child, jobs we never ever got to go somewhere just by ourselves. Few days ago my parents called us and proposed to take care of our daughter so we can go to vacation by ourselves. So we booked a hotel for 6 days in some tourist place. Happy that we are finally going somewhere just the two of us.
Now... We were always intimate and its vanila, you know married sex. Today we were alone at home just talking and i asked my wife, does she have any ideas for vacation? And she just said, yes a few. I asked her to tell me and she literally said "OK, here's the thing. We never ever had a few days just for ourselves, and from young age we skipped some things and now time has come to do some of those. Like when we go there i want to sleep every night naked, i want sex at least 2 times a day, i want car sex while we travel to vacation, roadhead, i want one time to try rough like its a rapeplay, i want you to adore my body, to go to restaurant, order than to take it for go, because you need to take me in a room and just do me right then." I was shocked, because she never talk with me like that. Then she said "And figure out what would you like. Because you always so vanila, and i usually propose everything."
Now i dont what i want, i was never thinking about it much. What's something that will rock her world and make her happy except what she wants?
Lady im counting on yours advices.
Thank
Posted Jul 11, 2026, 9:04 PM UTC