Looking for a genuinely great guy to join my wedding in Portugal (Yes, this is unusual!)

I know this is probably one of the stranger posts you’ll come across, but here goes.
I’m hosting a private celebration in Portugal this September with my closest friends and family, and I thought it would be fun to invite a couple of genuinely interesting people from outside my usual circle.
One of my closest friends is an incredible woman—kind, funny, intelligent, outgoing, and the type of person who lights up every room she walks into. She hates being “set up,” so this isn’t about forcing anything. It’s simply about creating an opportunity for good people to meet naturally.
I’m looking for someone who:
Is between 30 and 40 years old.
Is genuinely single and emotionally available.
Is interested in building a long-term relationship with the right person.
Is emotionally mature, kind, respectful, and socially confident.
Enjoys conversations and meeting people from different backgrounds.
Is open to learning about different cultures and religions.
Is at least 180 cm (5’11”).
Has hair (yes, that’s a genuine preference! 😅).
Takes care of himself and is reasonably attractive.
A few important things:
There are no expectations and absolutely no pressure. You’re simply joining a private celebration with good people.
You will be responsible for all of your own expenses, including flights, accommodation, transport, food outside the event, and any other travel costs.
I won’t be inviting anyone without getting to know them first. Expect a video call beforehand.
I’ll also ask for your social media (or LinkedIn) so I can verify you’re a real person. Safety comes first for everyone involved.
This is a private event, so I’m looking for respectful, genuine, emotionally mature people who know how to behave in a social setting.
If I don’t think we’re a good fit, please don’t take it personally.
If this sounds like something you’d genuinely enjoy, send me:
Your age.
Where you live.
What you do.
A few recent photos.
A little about your personality, hobbies, and values.
What you’re looking for in a partner.
Why this post caught your attention.
Please only message if you’re sincere. I’m not looking for players, people looking for a free holiday, or anyone who isn’t genuinely interested in building a meaningful relationship if they meet the right person.
If you’ve read everything, start your message with the words “Pastel de Nata” so I know you didn’t skip straight to the end. 😊
Who knows? Sometimes the best stories begin in the most unexpected ways.