pls guide me!

so my sp and I are tgt but things are going downhill bad. like real bad. haven’t spoken to each other nicely, love seems to be going down, attachment is vanishing. just alot of negativity.

So I was wondering how do I make things okay while he is still w me? like if he had broken up then okay I didn’t have to check 3D yk bcs im creating my reality. but since we are tgt what im affirming and manifesting gets off track bcs in reality we are fighting or arguing. so without choice I have to check 3d bcs in reality that’s what’s happening.

Can someone pls guide me here? How do I manifest him loving me, obsessing over me, whilst being together? how do I not get distracted from the negative 3D. im just kinda confused.