M35 | Non practising muslim | Kerala native | Seeking women around my age
Hi. :) Sorry if the post is too long. I've tried to include whatever i can. Never thought id use reddit for matchmaking.
I've tried to stuff a lot of details in here, but people are complex and can't be summed up in a brief description.
Anyway here i am :)
Something about me:
I'm occasionally anxious and indecisive, pretty much calm composed most of the time. I have my own self-identified red and green flags, I guess, more flags waiting to be discovered and labelled. :) Non-practising Muslim, based in Kerala , 173cm , Non smoker, occasional 🍷.
The Long Game
Saving up for my luxury old age home 🙂 (yep, I like the amenities, lol). Just need to figure out something exciting and meaningful to do until then, something that gets me out of bed every morning. Still in the run for that one.
Right Now - Career
In a career change phase, currently unemployed 🥲 and job hunting in cities like banglore and pune prefably.
Studied and lived in Europe for my bachelor's and master's.
No high-paying job, no luxury lifestyle yet, living within my means, and staying optimistic about it. Long term, I want to build something meaningful and interesting of my own. I'm open to risk and genuinely excited to see where life takes me.
What I'm Into
Talking about films, horror stories, death positivity, the ocean, surfing, and pretty much everything in between
(Ps im not a 'surfer',more like a wannabe , just been to a few classes.) I love Outdoors, working out, running ,getting sweaty and out of breath followed by a grand meal.
Hoping to get trained as a surfer (hobby goals) in the next two years
Cooking, and dancing at my own pace
Food
Non-veg, but I love veg food just as much. Never say no to idli & podi, poori masala with tea, filter coffee, or Mangalore buns. I love checking out wood fired pizza places. Occasional wine.
Music
Coke Studio, Led Zeppelin, old hindi,tamil and Malayalam classics, jazz, basically anything that gets my mind and body moving.not restricted by above mentioned. Love to discover more.
Looking For
Someone to coexist in peace with. Could start low-pressure and grow into something serious with proper communication. Preferably someone in my age range.
Posted Jul 13, 2026, 10:32 AM UTC