What if she isn't texting first because she wants to act tuff

Like, I'm not texting first because I want her to not believe that I'm vella. But what if she's tryna do the same??

I'm acting cold because I don't wanna look like an emotional pookiemon. But what if she's tryna do the same??

I'm checking my phone 67 times a day waiting for her to reply, and then intentionally not reading it for 5 hours because I wanna look busy. What if she's tryna do the same??