rain checked?

I met this chick on the weekend through a mutual friendship group and from the moment I saw her I knew I wanted to make a move. She was absolutely amazing. 

We haven’t spoken a lot face to face but I was getting involved in a conversation whenever she would be discussing something. We had a pretty good idea of each other’s presence.

Anyway – fast forward to a day festival, I couldn’t stop thinking but to go speak to her although the reason why I didn’t was because I was shy, she was so beautiful I genuinely was shy to go over and speak with her.

At some point through the night, I saw her dancing alone next to all our friends, so I went over to her and confessed how attractive I find her and that I was shy. She reassured me saying there was nothing to be shy about. I asked if I could take her out one day and she said yes. We spoke about some things in the crowd and potential places where we gonna go etc. and the evening went on, we were dancing, holding hands throughout the whole time. She then asked for my phone so I gave it to her, she had then input her number on my phone and told me “you got my number text me”.

I didn’t text her until the following morning, but when I did – she replied etc. We spoke a bit, we then discussed the potential date etc. it was fine however the following day, the meal date changed to just drinks, which I kinda liked – I cant lie , going to sit down for a meal as a first date after meeting in more of a social setting was quite a lot so I agreed on the drinks. Cool.

As the week went on, we spoke a little bit, but I did see that I was driving the conversation a lot, asking questions etc. and I am not saying she was giving me one worded replies/blunt messages etc. she was giving me enough to ask a bit more about her etc. but then again she didn’t really make the same effort back.

Fast forward towards the end of the week, I checked in with her whether we still meeting tomorrow and I suggested a time and place. She replied confirming that we’re still on however on the day, I got a message about 2 hours before hand that she got tied up at work, she hasn’t really slept much and asked for a rain check. I simply replied to her saying “no worries, hope you get some rest down you, let me know when you feel better and we can arrange another day” – she since then seen my message, reacted to it but now its silence. I am more than happy  to send her a message again, however I don’t want to seem like I am desperate… I think she has a pretty good idea that I am interested in her, I think if she was interested, she would’ve already made some effort back but she didn’t. I understand people are busy but if you wanted to see me you’d definitely make the effort. 

Also it is not like I asked her number,  I didnt ask her to text me, no social were exchanged - just a plain old school way  she put the number in my phone. 

Ball is in her court I guess right now 

thoughts tho?