Bi? Aro? Demi? I cant tell. HELPP

Long story short im trying to figure out my sexuality. I grew up in a religious very homophobic household. Ive always been attracted to men as far as I knew growing up. Flash forward to 2024 I had a crush on a female coworker and then another female crush later down the line. I was like oh im bi. That was that. Flash forward to 2026 I dont see people in the wild men or women and have crushes on them like i used to. I havent had the butterflies or felt romantically nervous or anxious around anyone in a while. Idk if I like women. Idk if I like men? Idk if i like people in general. I grew up being such a romantic and catching feelings so fast but now I dont feel much of anything at all. I went on a date w this girl and we hit it off. We were yapping for hours. Second date happens and she asks to kiss me. I say yes. Idk if it just wasnt what I was expecting? She wasnt bad but I feel like i should have felt stronger either way like oh I really dont like this maybe I dont like women or I really do like this I definitely like women and rn I dont wanna pursue a man. Idk how I feel about ANYTHING anymore.