Is this destiny or pure coincidence?

I'm (20F), and I think I may have met my soulmate (25M).

About two months ago, I downloaded a language exchange app because I wanted to learn Spanish. That's where I met a guy from Colombia, like me he was trying to learn the opposite language which is English. At first, we just talked about random things while helping each other learn languages. Eventually, he asked for my social media, and after that, we started talking even more.

We clicked almost instantly and began spending a lot of time together. One day, I told him about my obsession with Stardew Valley, especially the character "Sebastian". I joked that I wanted to marry someone named like him. He thought it was hilarious because, a little later, he revealed that his name is actually Sebastian. That completely caught me off guard.

As we got to know each other, things started feeling even stranger. We constantly seemed to think the same things at the same time, almost like we had some kind of telepathy. Sometimes, when I think of him or wake up in the morning he would instantly message me at the exact same time which is crazy.

Those are just a few of the many coincidences we've experienced. Little moments like these keep happening, and every time they do, we're both left surprised. I really like him, and sometimes I can't help but wonder if these coincidences are a sign from the universe that somehow brought us together—or if they're simply just coincidences that make our connection feel even more special.