Daughter texted for pickup tjen changed mind
I’ve posted before about my daughter, who after pressing charges and getting a guilty plea, decided to go back to him. It’s a shame that the no contact order dropped the day of the plea. Anyhow, she lives with him now and in the last two weeks I’ve received one missed call at 2am, that she said later was for a random question. She’s also texted twice for me to pick her up, but immediately changes her mind. Last night was the latest. I knew she was going to ask bc she started her text conversation the same way as last time with ‘Wyd’. She never randomly asks me what I’m doing so I was ready for the text. A few hours later she asked me to pick her up with the address included and as I immediately said I was on my way, she changed her mind. I’m thankful she’s reaching out and realize the cycle she’s in. But now I question if I should have just gone to check on her anyways. I don’t want to escalate the situation though and know that *she* has to decide to be done. So my question for all of you…..next time she’s asks to be picked up, should I just go, even if she changed her mind? Or do I continue to just follow her lead?
Posted Jul 13, 2026, 4:23 PM UTC