Just found out I belong in this subreddit

Wow I was just diagnosed with autism - which for years they thought was BPD and anxiety - and going through the posts here really hammers it home for me. I've had such a hard time connecting with others, keeping relationships together, speaking to others, reading social cues etc. I have lost literally alll of my friends.

Are there any books or websites I could be looking into, to help wrap my head around this and perhaps perform better in society?