More Than Findom?

Many years ago, I realized that what gives me the most pleasure is giving pleasure to my partners and seeing them enjoy it. Being financially submissive feels like a natural part of that.

It motivated me to study and work hard on both my mind and body so that one day I could completely spoil my future partner or domme. I’m happy that I actually entered this era and it’s getting only better.

I’ve been looking for a domme online for some time, but lately I’ve started to think that what would suit me best is simply a committed relationship with someone I could fully devote myself to.

I’ve seen a wonderful example of this in my own family. My cousin’s partner embraced her children as his own, and they are very happy together. He once told me that he loves the fact that being with her is, in a way, a challenge.

Are there others who look for a domme but, deep down, would actually prefer a long-term relationship with someone they could give everything to?
I’m also curious about the psychological side of this desire. I feel like these tendencies were already present when I was a teenager.