How do you build dating confidence when your real-life character stats are set to "low"?
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I am genuinely struggling with dating confidence.
My genetic build is basically a meme.
I am a guy out here trying to navigate life with: -
A certified 85 IQ
- A spine so hunched I look like a question mark
- Flat feet that slap the floor like wet pancakes
Because of my appearance and low stats, getting a date feels like a boss fight. I often feel stuck between isolating myself and laughing about it.
To the men here who also face physical or cognitive challenges:
How do you build confidence to put yourself out there? What are your best practical strategies to improve your dating life?
Feel free to drop serious advice or your best roasts.
Posted Jul 13, 2026, 4:27 PM UTC Β· locked
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