Me (M20) and my ldr gf (F20) are in the same city after so long but I still feel distant from her
So I (M20) am dating my LDR GF (F20) for about 1 year and 8 months now. Recently, we both moved into the same city for our internships, and we will be together for about two months. Now one month has passed since the start of our internships, and well, even though we're in the same city now, we are still about one hour away from each other. Because of that, we are only able to meet in the weekends. I miss her a lot and I want to meet her during the weekdays as well but it is barely possible. Within this one whole month, I only met her once during the weekday. She gets very tired when she comes back from her internship office, And then she takes a nap. Of course, when she's coming back from her office, we talk on call. Also when she does wake up after taking a nap from 7 to 9 or 10, we do talk. But she has not responded any of my reels that I sent to her or any of the messages that i sent her on insta to her. I don't really think that she has stopped loving me because when we do talk on call, it is nice. Obviously, we don't have much to talk about because we already share everything that we do on call or everything that we do during the day in the calls, and there's not much we do during the day. I feel bad that I'm not there for her when she's feeling tired and exhausted. I also feel a bit distant from her because of this. What do I do?
TLDR : Me and gf barely meet and she is super exhausted with her work to talk much or even text. I feel bad that i cannot be there with her physically to support her and feel a bit distant. What should I do.
Posted Jul 13, 2026, 4:28 PM UTC