21M Germany and/or online - skinny sub looking for long term dom into orgasm and bladder control

Hi! Please read the entire post before you DM me :)

I'm Justin, 21 years old and from Germany. I've been playing around with BDSM for a while now and I believe that I have the most fun with a person I trust and play with for a long time. This can look like frequent play sessions or even something closer to tpe, what matters most to me is communicating what we both like and finding a solution that satisfies both of us.

Kink-wise I'm more into the power dynamics of BDSM than the pain. I especially love giving up control over my orgasms and my bladder. Losing control over these basic bodily needs is a huge turn on for me. Complement this with a bit of bondage or a gag and I'm in heaven.

I also really like to get punished, especially using my bladder. Knowing to expect a rough and kind of uncomfortable session with no room for discussion really turns me on, as well as being able to make my mistakes right again by hurting for my dom. So while I wouldn't call myself a brat, expect semi-frequent mess-ups, either accidental or on purpose.

There are some caveats however: I currently tend to sometimes drop a little after I cum and I want you to respect this and give me some distance to breathe when this happens. I also don't want this dynamic to take a big toll on my everyday life, but this is more of a case-by-case discussion.

And of course I have some hard limits, including: Scat, Blood, Needles, Knives, Illegal, Blackmail.

I own a decent collection of toys and I'm open to get more as needed as well as other things we might need for our play.

If this sounds good to you, feel free to DM me with any questions and a little introduction about yourself, your kinks, expectations and ideas :)