Are dating apps worse because of my age 33F or they have gotten worse?
Recently, I've felt like Hinge has been pretty awful. Three years ago, I felt like I occasionally would find men that I found kind, consistent, interesting, attractive, emotionally available. I went on dates where even if we didn't connect romantically, the conversation was good, they seemed normal and looking for partnership. It felt like maybe 2-3 times a year, I'd find someone I could potentially be in a relationship with, and I very strongly felt like I could find a partner on the apps. Now at 33, it has been a dumpster fire. The men I have gone out with have been flakier. More socially awkward. I rarely meet a guy who is compatible with me. I'm debating quitting the apps all together because it just doesn't feel like they are worth it anymore. I'm not sure if its the enshittification of the apps, or if I'm just aging out to a field where there are less available men my age, and my age is putting me at a disadvantage?
Posted Jul 13, 2026, 4:29 PM UTC