Does this happen to other butches?
Do you ever feel that as a butch you still want to be told you're pretty, beautiful etc but it never happens?
Dating over the years I have paid many compliments. I love to praise and let a woman know verbally just how pretty she is, how smart, how wonderful.
But I never hear it back. I put time into my appearance and hygiene. I dress nicely and smell good on a date.
But i never hear it. Maybe not all butches want to be called pretty. I certainly do. I want to know I'm wanted but I have yet to hear it back.
Is it a butch thing?
Posted Jul 13, 2026, 4:33 PM UTC
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