Making friends/communities

Hello,

I'm a girl, so I don't even know if I can post here haha, but I've been exploring here for a while. I'm wondering how people make connections in the community? I tried looking around but 99% of the things are focused purely on porn. I know most people treat it strictly sexually, but are there some communities that divide a bit from that? I actually want to connect with people who won't go away after they're done doing their thing, people who believe in it more.

Then there is another thing, since I assume reddit make a lot of topics hard to talk about, so do people use other apps like session? But if yes, how do they find people there?

I'm basically asking how to make friends who have similar views on the world 😭