how would a woman meet bi/queer guys?

been identifying as lesbian for the past 15 or so years and i'm exploring my newfound attraction to men. so needless to say, my queer identity is extremely important to me.
if i'm gonna date a man, i want to meet men whose queer identity is just as important to them. i'm just not dealing with cishet bullshit, you know? 😂
not to mention i'm a little bit genderfluid and i just don't want to be some straight guy's girlfriend. that's not me. i want to meet men who will encourage me to explore my gender identity. does anyone else feel the same? how can i meet queer men? not just for dating, but for friendship.