30 [M4F] #Online #Germany #Anywhere 190 cm of submissiveness seeking a long-term dynamic with a genuine connection

Summary: Looking for a dominant partner aged 20 to 50 for a long-term D/s dynamic in which we are friends first and have a place in each other's life outside of kink as well. Please keep reading.

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Who am I?

Hey there, you can call me Lacram and I'm 30 years, born and living in Germany. When I'm not at my 9-5 office job, you'll probably find me in cafés or pubs with friends, or outside enjoying the fresh air... especially during my favorite season: winter! Further hobbies include football, video games, TV shows, and music.

Personality-wise, I'm generally calm and level-headed with a love for deep discussions and learning something new. I am easily excited and adore when people are passionate about something. Hit me with that niche hobby of yours! As much as I enjoy socialising, my social battery drains quickly around large groups of people. To recharge, I need some time gaming, watching something, or just napping - all of which I’d ideally want to do together with you!

Physically, I am about 190 cm tall with a slim build, short black hair, brown eyes, and a normal amount of body hair (if that matters to you). 

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Who am I as a submissive?

I've been in several long-term D/s dynamics online over the years and have been part of a small but amazing kink community since 2015. While I wouldn't call myself a super-experienced sub, I know what kind of dynamic i want. I even switched roles regularly with one partner but am not interested in switching anymore. I'm happily submissive and want to stay that way.

On the emotional side, I respond really well to a caring, nurturing style of dominance. A bit of a gentle femdom/caregiver energy where structure, guidance, and affection go hand in hand. I like feeling looked after and encouraged while steadily giving control out of my hands.

When I am comfortable with you, I also get immense joy out of doing whatever makes you happy and puts a smile on your face. That includes exploring kinks that are not yet on my radar but part of your likes!

Other than that, I can work with a pretty wide range of kinks and am happy to talk about all of them once we have gotten to know each other better.

I want there to be a connection before we get lost in all the kinky details. In case you want to know about our kink compatibility first, you can find a list on my profile.

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What else do I have to offer?

Generally speaking, I'm pretty good at giving an insight into my thoughts and feelings. Any dynamic should be a two-way street in my opinion, so I do my best to let you take part in what is going on inside me, ideally also in day-to-day life. I want to be that person in your life that you come home to to talk about your daily joys and struggles. Likewise, that is the place I want you to have in my own life.

I also tend to get quite attached in a good way once I'm hooked on someone. If you enjoy having a sub who genuinely invests, craves your attention, and cares deeply about you, that will probably be a plus. On top of that, I have been told that I have a good sense of humor, and I adore playful sarcasm/flirting.

And if that is not enough, I am an awesome gaming buddy and would love to found our own little book club in which we read the same books and talk about them! All of my life was spent reading fantasy novels, but I have an open mind and am more than happy to explore new genres with your guidance. 😄

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What am I after?

I'm not looking for casual one-off play. I'm looking for a genuine, long-term connection with someone for whom this dynamic can become important and exclusive. With trust and the emotional connection being so important for me, I can't share you with anyone else or be shared myself.

As stated before, I would love to build something where we can talk about everyday life too: normal conversations about all sorts of topics, gaming together, watching movies and shows, sending each other dumb memes, all of that.

Being looked after is really important to me, so please take good care of me and have a basic understanding of aftercare. In return, you can expect playful teasing, affection, and a lot of loyalty.

Last but not least, you should be able to hold a conversation and have a good amount of sarcasm yourself. Playful banter is the key to my heart, use it wisely.

Warning: if you can make me blush AND laugh at the same time, I’m legally required to become obsessed with you. Proceed with caution.

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Anything else?

If you have read this far and think we could be a match, feel free to message me - and please put some effort into it. Tell me about yourself, what you are looking for, and what kind of dynamic you enjoy. I have put effort into this, please grant me the same favor. One-liners will therefore be ignored.