Do guys lose interest when girls put efforts into conversations?

Dating Tips, Please! 💌

Been using hinge for 1 week or so. I have curated prompts well that invite comments. I prefer to comment on something in their profile rather than hey-ing or that's nice-ing. I ask open ended questions and show interest in profiles cause I am genuinely interested in meeting someone. I have two theories regarding it-

  1. Guys lose interest when they see a girl taking interest probably because they are not used to it 🧐

  2. I am matching with people who say they want long term but are actually looking for easy and casual.

Either way, I am willing to change my approach towards it. Suggestions?

Posted Jul 13, 2026, 4:35 PM UTC

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