Talking about health issue while dating

I’m honestly exhausted from having to explain my condition to men or women and waiting for their reaction. The questions they have can be so intrusive and inappropriate sometimes too. They want to know everything about my condition and what I can do sexually or sometimes they ghost me. The ones that ask a million questions about my condition sometimes seems more negative than a positive. You would think it would give them brownie points to want to know more but actually, a lot of the time, it’s just them gauging how disabled you are and if they want to deal with it. I’m on Dateability too which has been a decent experience but the platform is glitchy and there’s no one really near me. So the platforms for the general population is just me explaining my condition over and over again and it sucks.