37 [M4F] the Netherlands - 6ft+ giant looking for a local FWB to throw around from time to time

Maybe it's the summer heat, or maybe it's just me being a pervert, but these last few weeks have made me incredibly horny. While I’m not ready to jump back into the dating pool of disappointment and mixed messages, I wanted to try this first.

What I'm looking for is quite simple: a pervy Dutch girl between 25-45 who's open to a FWB dynamic in which we occasionally meet up, spend some quality time together (like a meal, drinks, or a movie/game night) before we get to the physical stuff. I hope to find someone willing to match my energy, both physically and emotionally.

While that sounds easy enough, there are a few things you should know before you reply;

I'm not the vanilla type. I repeat; I'm NOT the vanilla type and neither should you be. I'm attracted to women who enjoy the kind of content you’d find on r/SheLikesItRough; if you prefer someone holding your hand and slow thrusts, i'm not your guy.

While I don't want to dismiss anyone off the bat, I want to be transparent that I’m naturally drawn to women who are smaller/petite. It plays into the D/s dynamic for me if you're smaller.

I'm a tall Dutch guy (over 6ft) who lives up north but spends half his time in the Randstad area (mostly Amsterdam/Utrecht) for work and social life. I've always been the athletic type, and last year I exchanged my party/fun lifestyle for a serious running and gym routine. Professionally, I work in high-stakes corporate environments, mostly in IT or Government settings, but I'm definitely not an "ambtenaar" by any means. People who watch me describe me as an extrovert, but people who take their time to know me will find out i'm actually an introvert. I'm used to being vocal and expect a certain standard during the workday, but I’m much more laidback and relaxed in my private time.

If this is the kind of dynamic you'd like to explore with me, send me a DM letting me know who you are, what region you're from and what your ideal first solution would be for screaming children in supermarkets (just so i know you've made it this far).

Please note that I am a big believer in privacy and safety for both of us. I am looking for someone who is comfortable with maintaining good communications and is willing to do verification before we meet.

See you soon ;-)

*Notabot en ik ben ook gewoon beschikbaar in het Nederlands.