Does being a bottom seem niche or picky sometimes?

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Assuming physical interest, I tend to have great chemistry with top guys and vers tops who top most of the time and enjoy it, but honestly I’ve become one of those people who set their filters to dom tops and regular tops 🙈. I’ve just noticed a huge falloff after that in interest and compatibility.

I’m not anti-vers at all—have had great times with vers bottoms even—but I just let them reach out to me and tell me what they’re into, and we feel it out from there.

Anyone else wonder if they’re being too niche or picky at times? I just feel like it’s pretty simple what I’m going for in a hookup, but I don’t want to seem closed minded.

Posted Jul 16, 2026, 2:52 PM UTC

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