43 [FTM] #Kennesaw - Trans guy looking for long term relationship

So I am 43 trans masc/genderfluid and looking for serious, long term relationship. I have been on testosterone for almost three years in August. I will say upfront I am not interested in monogamy. I'm ethically non monogamous and have had open relationships. I'm hoping to find a primary partner. No fwb or hookups please. I'm also very kinky and submissive. Sex is a very high priority to me in a relationship and if it is not for you we won't be a good match. That being said I still want to really get to know someone as well. I DON'T do FWB or hookups.

I'm trained as a librarian and historian. Still trying to get my first library position. I value intelligence and learning a lot. I would say I'm geeky. I'm obsessed with books and anything academic in nature. I'm liberal. My main interests are art, comics, movies, tv, youtube, video games, antiques, anthropology, occult, thrift stores, humor, dnd, ttrpg, nature, and much more I'm sure I've not thought of. I'm also neurodivergent. I have generalized anxiety, bipolar, and adhd. I really adore cats and most animals.