I THINK DEFAMATION

I am involved with the situation wherein they are talking behind my back and they are saying some hurtful words and they are all more than 10 then they are accusing me that an intentional of touching private part which all are joke because when qe have a good relationship back when we did it as joke but when we have a misunderstanding they see it is wrong. One thing is it is from the past which is back when we are in 11th Grade and now we are in grade 12. But in this present day they are backstabbing me for no reason.I want to add that they are the one who first give a motive so I join them because we are in good relationship but now it is not in good relationship.One more to add they are the one who are saying bad words such as “suck my dick”, “come here I want to fuck you” something like this.I want to add that I also express my feelings so I say bad words too like nagpaparinig ako because they started it.I want to add that they are the one who first give a motive so I join them because we are in good relationship but now it is not in good relationship