I'm starting to think men don't consider women they're not attracted to to be women

I'm starting to think men don't consider women they're not attracted to to be women. If I'm not a woman, then what am I?

Men are always talking about how women have endless options. I have zero. I have always had zero.

I'll talk to a guy and we develop a great connection, but then we meet and he's not attracted to me. Suddenly he treats me like a disease he needs to run away from.

In public men don't even look at me, and if they do its because they're standing behind a cash register taking my money.

I'm either invisible or I'm treated like a peer, or as one man said "you're not a woman, you're a friend blob"

Men, is this true? Do women become genderless to you when you're not attracted to them?