Break up advice

So my boyfriend 24 (M) and me 22 (F) have been together for 5 years. We have been struggling for a while with spending time together and intimacy. It’s not time that is the problem. We have time but he prioritizes video games. I’ve brought it up many times but nothing will change even when he says he will try harder. My family and friends don’t really like him anymore because of things I’ve shared, moments I needed him but he wasn’t there for me even when he could have been, not trying to interact with my family.
I think he wants to get back together or thinks that is what is going to happen after our break. To me this is a break up but I also love him. What do I do.