Does my first relationship have to end?

First of all we saw each other for a few months. But once a week to begin. About a bit a month into things he travels with friends over the U.S. and he told me he’d be staying with various female friends 1:1, and one of them he moved in with and signed a lease on back here.

He comes back and we meet up, plans now feel more vague he’s way more maybe about them. Must’ve been maybe 6 times we met at this point. He said we can be in a relationship. Then he invites me back to his house several times after returning. He then cuts time out with us short because I didn’t go home with him. He said it wasn’t that. But I felt bad.

So he invited me several more times and we’d go out somewhere but 2 hours in he’d just say he wants to go. Heinvited me to his friends events. And I went to one. But he hugged me and acted a bit weird after hugging me and the whole time he seemed annoyed. So the next friend event I didn’t go to because I didn’t like how he acted annoyed of me.

Well this weekend I met him and everything was totally fine. On Saturday he asked me if I can come to this thing his brother was having on Monday. Monday comes, and he doesn’t hug me or even really talk to me. And he asked me a question and replied: why would you say that. Just acting a bit cruel because I answered it pretty normally. Or he asked me where I parked and I said I’m not sure and he said how can you be that unprepared.

He was not joking and the vibe shift was very weird. He didn’t touch me or anything which I find the common denominator when he brings me to things. One work conference I felt he was running from me. He said if I didn’t go he’d take his female friends and idk if he invited me but really wanted them to come. I feel like he’s embarrassed of me but when I saw him thisweekend he was normal held my hand and kissed me and then was talkative. This time was cold and mean… and it’s only a few days idk what happened but.

Usually he’s not very romantic with me or like nothing but kissing and then talking happens. But this last time I saw him he wasn’t even talking to me really. Looked bored and borderline annoyed. I’m not sure if something changed or what but it felt like a slap in the face when he said to keep my weekend open because maybe we’ll do something.

Didn’t text me after either. I mean I feel like for a while I’ve known that him constantly inviting me to his place means he just wants to sleep with me and then cutting things short with us too. But we just had a talk about things and how we felt about one another so I find this funny