PERFECT DATE GONE SOUTH...FAST!
THIS WENT FROM LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT TO WTF HAPPENED!
I met a woman online about a month ago. After putting off meeting or talking for 10 days she finally says let's meet. I give her my address and hour later says her power steering is out so I say I'll pick you up. You can't have my address, but I'll drive to the gas station mile from her house. I pick her up, instant off the charts chemistry and the sex was unreal especially since it had been 6 months. P.S., I never have sex on a first date....this just seemed too real, perfect afternoon
I drive her back to her car at 1 a.m. and she is all talk about romance and I don't know how lucky I am and let's build a future together. At that moment, I'm all in! Made plans to stay at my place the next night but still won't give me her address (also didn't tell me her real last name) to pick her up. She'll have the steering fixed and see me around 5. I'm sleeping the next morning, get a text that I read without glasses on an saw part by one, done by 5...enough to know the date is on!
Here's where it goes south, really south! She texts me about 6 and says she's not coming because I didn't pay $167 for the part and she never got it fixed. First I never saw go pay for a part, I saw one and 5 and never thought anything of it till I reread the message. I can't come to your house and you lied about your last name but I need to pay $167 for a part for your vehicle or no date. It has now been 2.5 weeks later and she write about every other day saying I can step it up and help her out with finances to show me what kind of a man I am. Are you kidding me?
First of all if she asked nice or called, who knows, I may have helped. It was an amazing date! But the fact she texted and basically demanded the money, I wouldn't help now for any reason. I didn't know this women in person for even 17 hours, no last name and you can't come to my house. If you knew how ugly the texts have been, no one would give her the time of day. It started with me getting abused and my reply would be, I won't reply to anything but come pick me up and we'll talk. It's almost 3 weeks, vehicle still doesn't work but she still writes.
She thinks her request is normal, not once in my life have I ever been told to pay for car parts (or anything else for that matter) or no date for being less of a man and showing her I will provide for her. This story entails much more than this and I will gladly post actual text messages to show you how crazy she is. Would I still see her, would love to and don't care about anything that's happened...it's just amazing someone can be so lost in a belief that someone you know nothing about, should be buying $167 car parts or no date. Funny thing, she got the part and the mechanic said that's not even the problem.
Posted Jul 23, 2026, 5:10 AM UTC