Men and women do not experience sexual demand the same way.

I'm a server, I'm in my 30s and I've slept with hundreds of women. Actually first joined this site for swinger communities. Used to sleep with married women and let their husbands watch. Fun times. I joke this is somehow the only STD I caught.

I see tons of posts of women dealing with unwanted attention, yet I make my living off women who were once wanted and trying to feel that again. It's annoying to me. It's never fun to be the subplot to someone else's story.

They are insufferable, they need and want every damn thing under the sun. When really they just want my attention. I mostly work with women. The men they deal with are worse, less socially aware. More obtuse. It's more about getting it for the men where as the women just want the attention. They want my interest more than they want me. It makes me think of the argument with women and revealing clothing. She is doing it for herself. She wants to feel desirable and that makes her feel valid. She isn't fishing for a mate so much as she's fishing for validation. She's wanted, people want her and therefore she is valid.

Women want to be desired. Men want what they desire.

Now I know y'all are weirdos, um awkshully I knowing I'm not a normal person am very different, so clearly your statements about normal people can't be true. People are diverse. No one person is reducible. Patterns exist all the same. Your difference, your struggles, might have something to do with your rejection of those patterns. You wanna be different, okay cool. Be different though.