33 [M4F] #Austin, Texas/#Online - The judgement-free stranger you didn't know you needed to talk to

Good Evening! I am back to be the hand on your shoulder that reassures you and tells you that all those dark cravings and needs you have are perfectly okay to indulge in.

I've been in the kink community for a little under a decade now, starting out exploring D/S and ending up in full TPE dynamics and living out CNC/Free-Use scenes.
While kinks and fantasies can get extremely dark and scary, that doesn't mean that everything has to be.
Sometimes the things that have the most effect on us are simple, innocent things and that's perfectly valid.

I'm of the mindset that in order to let yourself really feel that fear and intensity of a scenario/scene, you have to have a solid level of rapport with the person you're doing it with.
You can really let yourself exist in that space when the person who is supposed to be the scariest part of the scenario is also the same one you can rely on to make sure you're taken care of afterwards so you can fall asleep easy with a new set of enjoyable memories.

About me: 33 5' 7" (170 cm) in shape and emotional intelligent.
Comfortable with playing the role of the soft authority figure who pats your head to praise you for every little accomplishment all the way to the person who will run and catch you to fulfill my selfish needs by any means necessary regardless of the resistance I face to satisfy myself.
I play more of a dominant role in relationships and, unfortunately, can't do the whole "submissive" role (not for lack of trying! I genuinely gave it a shot and it just did not do it for me).
As I said, open minded and willing to listen to whatever fantasy, interest, kink etc. (yes, even that one you never told anyone about) without judgement.
When I was first starting out and had questions about things I couldn't put into words, having someone there to even say "I hear what you're saying" was a huge weight off my shoulders and made me feel like I wasn't alone with having those thoughts.

I typically prioritize anyone who is local but have no issue if this remains strictly online (I've been in a couple of LDR pre-COVID).

You don't have to have any experience to reach out. Whether you just found out that missionary feels good or have spent decades figuring out and trying out everything.