Honestly, I just need to vent. I feel stupid asf.

So my situationship (a guy) and I finally ended things but on bad terms. It started in 2024 when I relocated from my hometown. I’ve always liked him and admired him. Now, I live 30 minutes away from him and I lost my virginity to him that same year. Then, he came back around in April 2025. This is where the financial exploitation started. I got him the Kobe 8’s for his birthday and every single time since then, he’s asked me for money and I gave it to him out of the kindness of my heart.

Come to find out, instead of sending that money for actual help, he uses it to get a tattoo. I forgave him but I felt hurt. Unfortunately, in order for us to hookup, I always had to give him money. He never paid me back each time. Never took me on dates, nothing. He only texted when he needed something and when I would joke around or try to have a general conversation, I’d get left on read. Not to mention, I always had to adjust for him. I had to rearrange my plans because he didn’t want to come over at a time that was convenient for me.

Fast forward to last Saturday, I wanted to link but I didn’t have $50 so I sent $18. He ended up canceling and never refunded the money so I called him out about it and now the situationship is done with. Did I say something wrong?