I, 28F was called unreasonable by my LDR partner 29M

He called me unreasonable because I confronted him about checking out OF models and NSFW workers. I even say indirectly that he has no effort on his side to make our relationship work. He said I’m unreasonable and letting me calm down so he didn’t answer. I mean it’s more unreasonable if he didn’t answer. Am I just the unreasonable one here?