Help

I hope I can fit this all in here because I am CONFUSED. I have wavy, super frizzy hair, that seems to be wavier the less I do with it. I’ve never been able to brush/comb while wet because my hair STICKS together and I’m sure it does more damage no matter what I do. My scalp is dry but also gets oily within 24 hours. My ends are dry (it used to be pretty soft and nowhere near as frizzy so I’m pretty sure it’s damaged). Volumizing and frizz shampoos weigh me down. My hair is dry until I brush it when dry, then it’ll smoothe out a bit but looks like I brushed out wavy hair, yanno?

I feel like I’ve tried everything and I’m so frustrated. I’ve spent so much money on different products and they’ll be so inconsistent. I can do the exact same thing every day for a week and get 7 different results.

I don’t know what recs can help, I’m mostly just here to rant and rave but sound off if you know anything or can just relate