I need an outside perspective because I still can't make sense of this whole situation.

I first met this guy at a club. We had an unforgettable eye-contact . Nothing more than that,I never expected to see him again.

A few months later, we randomly matched on Hinge.our hinge ac was faceless so we switched to ig. Then , we realized 😭😭we'd actually met before at that  club. He said he can't disgust the fact we met again like this.It felt like such an unbelievable coincidence that I genuinely started thinking maybe it was destiny type shit.🥀🥀🥀🥀

Our first hangout or whatever that was honestly one of the best  I've ever been on. We went on a long drive, smoked together, listened to music, talked for hours, and everything felt effortless. The moment that stayed with me the most was when he asked, "Can I hold your hand?" Before touching me, he asked for my consent. No guy had ever done that before, (ik this is bare minimum but I am 🤡) and it made me feel so respected. I remember thinking I'd finally met someone different.🤡

After that, things became confusing.

He would disappear for days, then suddenly call me 8–10 times saying he missed me and wanted to see me. He'd be incredibly affectionate one day and completely distant the next. It was constant mixed signals, but I kept making excuses because I used to like him.

We were talking like since 2 months.Eventually he called me again, saying he really wanted to see me, i was angry on him and didn't want to meet him that day he called me 13 times, i thought he is really missing me so , I invited him over my place to watch a match. He came with one of his friends.. We watched the match, drank, talked, cuddled and everything seemed completely normal. But midnight I saw he was not sleeping beside me , i thought he is not into me so i let it go and slept again he and hai friend was in another room. He was already gone when I woke up i thought it was because he is not into me. Tbh, a month ago i stopped giving him attention i was kinda over him so i was not sad that he felt without saying anything..

A while later, I realized several of my belongings were missing—cash, my expensive things , perfume, a bracelet, and a few other things, even 20rs cash .They had been there before he came over, and after that night they were gone. That's when I became convinced he and his friend had stolen them.

After everything that happened, I started looking deeper into who he actually was, i called mutuals and that's when more lies came out. I found out he had lied about his age and was actually 17, I also discovered he had lied about where he lived, also  later learned he struggled with drug addiction. Also he recently stole his friends gold chain. This guy even stole 10 rs coins. Even his car 😭😭 Every new thing I found out made me realize I barely knew the person I'd been seeing.

Looking back, it's hard to believe that the same guy who asked for my consent before holding my hand could also lie about so much and leave me feeling so betrayed.

I still don't know what was real.

This is about a guy I thought we were -