30M | Dubai | Looking for a second wife | open marriage arrangement, family fully on board

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Assalam-o-Alaikum,

A bit about me: 30 years old, Pakistani, 6'2", did my Master's in the UK and currently living and working in Dubai. I'm told I look younger than my age.

I'm looking for a second wife, and I want to be completely upfront about what that means. This is not a secret marriage and not a mut'ah. My first wife knows and fully supports this, and so does my mother. You would be a full, open, permanent part of the family, living with us, not hidden away, not a side arrangement.

What I'm looking for:

  • Shia sister preferred, though I'm also open to practicing Sunni sisters
  • On the taller side: purely a personal preference, since I'm 6'2"
  • Someone who genuinely loves to travel
  • Someone comfortable with a polygamous household and on good terms with the idea of a co-wife
  • Not looking to have children — this isn't about starting another family

What life would look like: honestly, a lot of travel. My dream is for the three of us to see the world together, that's the life I'm trying to build.

Part of my reason for a second marriage is that my needs within a marriage are higher than my current situation comfortably meets, and I'd rather be honest about that and handle it in a halal way than be vague or dishonest.

If this resonates with you, feel free to message me. I'm happy to answer anything directly.

Posted Jul 23, 2026, 10:10 AM UTC

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