I genuinely feel so lost. I know it's a bit too early to discuss about this, but I'm not sure what to do. 

Me, 20F and my bf, 20M, we have been dating for 9 months. We both truly love each other and want to married together in 5-6 years (waiting to finish our degree). Recently I've been questioning him on uncomfortable topics / reality regarding our future.  Quick introduction, I'm the eldest daughter from 3 siblings (All girls) and my bf is the third child from 4 siblings. We both are from muslim family, but he told me he's agnostic due to religion trauma. 

My parents knows about him and they were okay with him at first. But recently, it was obvious that they want me to break up with him. This is due to the fact he don't want to accept the job offer from my dad's interning place. He doesn't like driving there, and wishes to not work there. My parents are mad because finding job in this economy and his passion (He's a photographer) is quite hard. My parents ask him to just accept it. My bf would work if they has offered a higher salary. My parents was judging him saying he still doesn't have a higher certificate (He only has a diploma.) There's no way someone will offer a high paying job to him. I know my parents is a bit harsh, but it is totally understandable.

I told him that "Hey I think my parents don't like you, and likely want us to break up. Because to them, you seem like incapable person and don't think you can take care of me." ( He did mentioned to me if i'm okay with him being unemployed, I said no. I want him to work. ) Well my parents isn't wrong either, I just don't know what to do.. I mentioned that if you want to marry me, you really have to prove them wrong and one more thing is to get your (my) religion seriously. 

My parents really want the best for me, that's what they said, because again we are the only daughter they have, so my parents want us to get the best man to take care of us. (My father have been spoiling us since I was a kid, and working hard just so he could get what we want.)

As much as he is the sweetest caring person ever and I really love him, but every time I bring up about this, he would cry. I cried too, but his cry make me feel even more guilty because I open up... It result me to fall into really bad depression because of this.. I have been in and out of therapy office. Every day I wonder if this will ever work out. 

So my question is, should I give him a guide on how to impress my parents, to get their approval, or should I ask for break up preventing from wasting more time?   
   
Yesterday lunch, good ol cheeseburger with fries!

My parents hate my partner