I don’t know how to feel. I feel kinda gross
So I met this dom online we talk and we really seem to connect. We talk about our hobbies and he asks me about what I want kind of dynamic am I looking for stuff like that.
I start to notice while he’s responses are starting to sound like ai. So I’m like hmmm, I reread the messages and it just sounds like he put my responses into a chat bot and asked chat got to ask what he wanted it to say and he copied and pasted it into the chat.
So I put one of his responses into an ai checker and lo and behold 100% ai. So I’m put all his responses into the ai checker and it’s all ai.
But like an idiot I looked past the ai and say “maybe he just couldn’t get his words together”. I felt right in the moment because after he ask me about what kind of dynamic I was looking for, he stopped using ai and sounded like a normal person. I just want to say that I really like to give people the benefit of the doubt. But this was a sign not to pursue anything with this man and I ignored it.
I want ya’ll to keep in mind that this man reached out to me first.
So we’re talking everything’s fine and I offer him my number. So we can get off the site we were on. So it’s the next day we’re talking about shows we like to watch stuff like that.
Then we start talking about our kinks and what we want to try first together. We talk about edging. He’s like “when would you be available to try it” I say “today or tomorrow”. (Note: I’m newer to bdsm so I don’t know if this was to fast to move on to kinks)
So he’s like today because he has a flight in the early in morning. So we start he tells me to take my clothes off and some other things. Then he stops texting me to give me instructions and ghost me. Straight up mid edge.
I thought oh maybe he got really busy (because he had told me he was answering a lot of emails that day) took me 5 hours yes 5 to realize I got got.
Why would he ghost me mid edge? I think it was malicious and he did it the fuck with me.
I really don’t know how to feel but I do feel gross.
Posted Jul 23, 2026, 10:19 AM UTC